Thanks Saoirse, i totally agree...its our business not anyone else's.
mouthy, I wasnt talking about sex to him, we were chatting about my wedding and honeymoon and he just came out with that, i was completely stunned Then again he also thought he ruled our marriage....he said we couldnt go away for a weekend, i said "but we're married" he said we werent too go and really had ago at me, what he said could have got him removed, but at the time i was a door mat let everyone walk all over me.